Be Social!
Over the last couple of weeks you may have noticed I have been a bit absent. No excuse really, I just have been spending a lot of time thinking about who I am, what I want, and how I want my life to be. Even though I may love myself I still have ups and downs and you have no idea how many hours a day I spend over analyzing every little thing, assuming what peoples thoughts are, beating myself up for any unused moments and half assed processes and because of all of that I find myself wound up so tight, exhausted just from being in my head all the time, and just not having very much fun or taking very good care of myself. Well those days are over! I have decided that this Spring/Summer is going to be about doing things that make me happy and enjoying my life. No more agonizing over every little detail. I am only going to participate in things I enjoy, wear things I love, spend time with people who bring out the best in me and HAVE SOME FREAKING FUN! I am going to vacation, act like a dork, take ridiculous photos, write crappy poetry, sing at the top of my lungs with the windows down, dress for comfort when I feel like and just embrace having a fullfilling life that is full of activities, work, friends and things makes me happy and not make any apologies for it.
No worries, I am not going to stop blogging or go on hiatus or anything but I am going to stop beating myself up all the time about silly things. Even if an outfit is casual and simple I’m going to post it, even if like today I am only able to shoot in front of my garage door then so be it. This blog is an outlet and is something that is supposed to make my life feel rich and full and not something that I should be stressing all the time. Its a new chapter of my life and i’m ready to embrace the chapter with open arms and ENJOY MY LIFE AGAIN! I think this change of attitude is going to serve me well and already is making a difference for me, today I am in a great mood am filled with laughter and for this first time in a while I am really happy with how I am projecting that to the world.


Blazer: Forever21+/Studded Tassle Top: City Chic (Gifted)/Jeggings: Torrid/Shoes: Joan & David/Bracelet: Torrid (Gifted)
This look is super comfortable and includes some of my favorite pieces. I just recieved this Tassle Tank Top from City Chic last week and I love it. I had been eyeing it for a long time but they had been out of larges for a while, but I decided what the hell and picked it up in a M and it fits just fine! I really love this tank and will probably wear it a lot this summer. It is a thick racer back and has a nice structured lining. Then it has two tiers of tassles that give it great dimension and detail. I also really love the round studs which dress it up a bit too. This top is well fitted, comfy and I love the movement it has when I walk. In this look I was going for comfort and ease for a busy day soo I paired the top with my good old Torrid jeggings that are getting a bit worn out I wear them so much. Since I have to be in the office today and its still a bit chill out I added my Grey Forever21+ blazer. I am having problems again with cheap earrings so I just stuck to my diamond studs and added a bracelet Torrid had gifted me back in the fall for a little bit of accessorizing and then completed the look with my silver leather oxfords from Joan and David. These shoes literally or so lush and comfortable and fabulous I would wear them everyday if I could. They litterally are like butter.
I am all smiles in these photos and its a true expression of how I am feeling with a bit of weight off my shoulders and excitment to start enjoying life a lot more and worrying a lot less!
xoxo
Stiletto
Be Social!